Thoughts On Social Media and Doubt

It is, of course, old news that social media is no place for most serious discourse. Comment-section or reply fights are often vitriolic, intended to score points with allies who already agree rather than to actively listen to, understand, and counter other perspectives. Algorithms reward certainty, extreme positions, and provocation…

9 Things That Made My Life Better Last Quarter (April-June 2025)

Better late than never! This quarter has been a unique whirlwind, as I’ve been teaching summer-semester classes for the first time as well as working within structured writing development program. It’s been very productive and also new to me. Here are some smaller things that helped me stay happier day-to-day:…

9 Things Making My Life Better Last Quarter (Jan. – Mar. 2025)

We’re already well into Q2, so I can say with the certainty of retrospect and the vividness of recency that everything on this list helped me get through Offspring’s first few months at daycare and my own first semester teaching a new-to-me-course. I’m hoping several will continue to help through…

9 Things That Made My Life Better Last Quarter (Oct.-Dec. 2024)

Totally squeaking in while these three months are still technically last quarter! Above all, said months were busy, but these little bits of fun and coolness helped make them less stressful. a New York Times digital subscription The New York Times offered first-time subscribers a full year for only $20,…

9 Things That Made My Life Better Last Quarter (July-Sept. 2024)

It turns out, returning to work after parental leave is a lot, and returning to a 130% full workload after… well, literally anything is a LOT. Don’t worry, I’m okay: it was just for one semester, which is winding down now. (Hence the return to blog-dom and wonderful things like…

Things I Should Have Learned Before I Actually Did, Part 2

Last post, I wrote about some things, big and small, serious and not, that I learned later than I should have in life. Sometimes, that “should” meant that I wish cultural norms had been different and supportive; sometimes that “should” just meant I’m aware I didn’t follow typical timelines for…

Things I Should Have Learned Before I Actually Did, Part 1

Hindsight is 20/20. It’s easy to look back and think “I should have known that sooner!” while forgetting what it was like to actually be your younger self. Sure, older you would have put that knowledge/skill/perspective together much faster… but older you has different resources and experiences. This is why…