I mean, I learned a lot more than ten things in 2021, but here are a few of the ones that came to mind: 1. My queer identity is valid. I’m allowed to be bisexual, grey-asexual, and gender non-conforming, and nobody but me gets to say whether I “really” count…
We’re almost at the end of 2021, a year of confusing changes and choices (What are the rules for everything opening back up? Where am I OK going? Whom do I feel comfortable seeing? Where do I feel comfortable not wearing a mask? What is my “new normal”? Why are…