It’s the best of yearly quarters, it’s the worst of yearly quarters: April is a very intense time at work, as the end of the school year brings final projects and presentations and burnout (for both students and faculty/staff). May is a million loose threads as we wrap up the…
But first: here it is! I hope you enjoy it. Here I would normally go into detail about all the minor things I wish I’d done better/more in accordance with crossword-setting conventions, but that would make me a hypocrite, since I keep telling family members to stop talking their work…
I’m purposely slowing my roll with this blog this year, in part to see how it affects my mental health. So far, taking a break has been good for me, and I’m realizing that, if I choose to continue, more sporadic posting may be more sustainable. I like making these…
Happy 2022! This year was another weird one. Despite everything, I still like making lists! And checking things off them! (Or not.) So, without further ado, here’s the update of last year’s list: 1. How to deadlift 200+ lb. At the end of July, after weighing (no pun intended) my…
I mean, I learned a lot more than ten things in 2021, but here are a few of the ones that came to mind: 1. My queer identity is valid. I’m allowed to be bisexual, grey-asexual, and gender non-conforming, and nobody but me gets to say whether I “really” count…
We’re almost at the end of 2021, a year of confusing changes and choices (What are the rules for everything opening back up? Where am I OK going? Whom do I feel comfortable seeing? Where do I feel comfortable not wearing a mask? What is my “new normal”? Why are…
So, I like romances, but I also don’t like romances. I looove romances that take place during other kinds of stories–hook me up with a mystery, or SFF, or, best of all, an SFF mystery (!!!), and I will go to the mat for my favourite ship. Said favourite ships…
I’m hesitant to use the #OwnVoices tag even when I’m writing characters whose identities and experiences overlap with my own. It’s not because I’m unsure who I am–I know that I’m Jewish, bi, grey-ace, GNC, etc. It’s because I’m not sure I’m enough of those things to count. Looking at…
We often phrase the “Golden Rule” as though it’s simple: do unto others as you’d have them do unto you. Or, according to Rabbi Hillel, what is hateful to you, don’t do to your fellow. Or, love your neighbour as yourself. All of these are slightly different takes on the…
Here is something weird my brain does: I love fictional genius characters, especially ones whose sense of self-worth is tied up in their intelligence and whose story arc is partially about the messy process of untangling the two. I love Charlotte Holmes, Harrowhark Nonagesimus*, Gregory House, and all the rest.…